Monday, October 7, 2019

Empty Nesters!

 What's the first thing you do when you're an empty-nester?
 You go camping and rock climbing at Red River Gorge, of course!
 Since we are beginners at this rock climbing thing, we chose to climb via ferrata, a type of rock climbing using Rebar for feet and hand grips. 
It's a great security feature, but does not make the climbing any less scary (at least for me who is deathly afraid of heights). However, after a few freak-out moments, and some deep-breathing exercises, I was able to conquer the beginner and intermediate levels. 
Cabin where we received instructions and our gear. 
Climbers on the rock's face, on the advanced course.
Brad started to climb one of the more advanced levels but decided he was too fatigued, and that he would try another day when his muscles were fresh.
 Even the climb down was a little sketchy.
 But, we survived, had a great time, and plan on eventually conquering all of the levels!
So, what else do you do when you're an empty-nester? You go out with friends to your favorite Mexican restaurant and try to sing karaoke for the first time!  
That too I will do again, only next time I will choose an easier song, that's slower and more within my range! I must redeem myself!

BYU-Idaho

 The second week of September I drove with Aubrey and Merinda cross-country to BYU-Idaho so that Aubrey could have a car for her student teaching.
 After two twelve-hour days we may it to Mom's house where we stayed the night and finished packing up the girls things for college. Merinda and I also made some decorations for her room using Mom's garden shears because she didn't have any wire cutters (hey, whatever works!).
The next day we stayed with Brittney and Sean so that the girls could catch up with each other, and celebrate the September birthdays.
 The next morning we took off for Rexburg, Idaho, but got caught in a torrential downpour just as we left Sandy, UT, in the morning rush-hour traffic, with insane construction going on right before the point of the mountain! There were cars hydroplaning everywhere because of the construction and standing water on the freeway, but luckily for us, our little car did not hydroplane due to the fact it weighed a million pounds from all of the girl's stuff packed in it so tightly (including all the gifts, and extra pots and pans for both girls from Brittney and Sean). Once in Rexburg, we unloaded everything into Aubrey's apartment ($15.00 is a small price to pay for early check-in!), figured out Merinda's housing, tuition, and got her student ID, and then took off for Blackfoot to retrieve the rest of Aubrey's belongings (why was all her stuff in Blackfoot? the story is too long to explain!). And can I add that I was too late in getting a hotel in Rexburg so I stayed in Idaho Falls but ended up going back and forth to Idaho Falls several times over the course of my stay, which wasn't fun because the main freeway was closed due to construction (very poor city planning!). And can I also add that I hiked up and down I don't know how many stairs (Merinda's apartment was on the fourth floor and I didn't have the patience to wait for the elevator with everyone else also moving in), with very heavy suitcases, room decor, living/cleaning/kitchen supplies, and food! 
 Merinda switched her housing from Center Square to The Cove two days before move-in. Luckily, she wasn't homeless, and the great part about it was the fact that she ended up paying less money for a brand new posh apartment ...
Merinda's room ...
Desk with beautiful view of Porter Park!
 Merinda showing Breck and Iris around the place ...
 Merinda's bathroom attached to her room, which she only shares with her room room-mate.
Big screen TV and view of Porter Park through sliding glass doors.
  Granite counter tops, stainless steal appliances, and two very large fridges. There's also an extra room in the apartment just for storage!
 Water bottle stations at every drinking fountain on every floor.
 Fully equipped gym with lots of treadmills and elliptical machines. They also have a large yoga and zumba room with a wall of mirrors on the second floor (where Merinda's roommate teaches yoga).
 Gathering area, they also have a large study room on the third floor with a wall of windows looking downtown, and a football viewing room with extra large TV on the the fourth floor.
Merinda, Iris, and Breck standing on the upper deck (just steps away from Merinda's apartment) with Porter Park in the background.
 There are two main decks, the upper one has tables and chairs,
 and the lower, larger deck has two large hot-tubs, fire-pit, big screen TV, couches and lounge chairs, and several grills for barbecuing. 
 After getting Merinda settled in she spent the rest of the day and next morning doing Get Connected. Aubrey and I went and with the parents and got free food and watched the new Freshman play get-to-know-you games on the football field. Aubrey was actually a Get Connected Counselors (in orange t-shirts) one of her years at BYU-I.  
 Aubrey and I then finished walking around campus so that I could check out all the new buildings (like the I-Center above, which is an amazing building with a Conference Hall that's just like the Conference Center in Salt Lake City!). 
 That evening we all met at The Hickory for dinner and endless lemonade (with 50 flavors to choose from!) which apparently The Hickory is know for, which was good because I was so dehydrated from moving the girls in, I drank my weight in lemonade!   
 Breck and Iris were also exhausted and starving (they went for the whole rack of ribs ... yes, dinner was on me of course!) from shopping for furniture, groceries, and all the essentials for married housing!
After dinner I was ready to crash at Breck and Iris' apartment for the night when they informed me that the place needed major cleaning and organizing before we would even be able to find a place to sleep.
So at 9:00 pm we arrived at Breck and Iris' apartment and unpacked the groceries and boxes they had in storage. They then moved some furniture around, and set up the "new" kitchen card-table and chairs from DI. After that they re-organized their bedroom and bathroom by hanging shower curtains, putting together shelving units, making the bed with new linens, and turning their closet into a make-shift office and study area (since all of Iris' classes are on-line this semester), while I scrubbed down the kitchen and appliances, and put everything away in the kitchen. 
I was just about ready to crash on the brown couch for the night (with brand new pillows that Iris found at DI) when I discovered that I had stepped in dog poop, while walking to the kid's second floor apartment, which I happily cleaned off my shoe before Breck asked if I wanted to watch something via the projector, which I said "sure!"
After a quick change of the furniture (couch for viewing purposes and fridge to place projector), we watched a show on Netflix, and finally called it quits sometime after midnight! Bright and early the next morning I caught the 6:00 am shuttle to the Salt Lake Airport where Mom picked me up in a state (I haven't felt that exhausted in a very long time). After having my youngest graduate from high school, going through two weddings, and driving cross-country to drop the kids off at school, I think I'm ready for a serious break, which probably won't happen due to Fall being the busiest time of year for me at work! Ahhh life!

Saturday, October 5, 2019

Breck's Wedding V

Breck & Iris' Wedding Reception 
Falls Church, Virginia
August 17, 2019
Iris' Father Jose, her Father's Girlfriend Mary, and Iris' little Grandmother, who actually came from El Salvador (where Iris was born) to attend the wedding! 
I had to get this picture off of Facebook because every picture I took of Iris' Mother (red dress standing next to her aunt in pink, sister in blue, and cousin in black) was a blur from her running around crazy all evening. I know things did not go perfectly (like Iris' step-father getting to the reception late because his car broke down), but it was a very nice night with great food, great music & dancing, and Breck & Iris really enjoying themselves ...
The gym at the Falls Church Ward building was decorated beautifully,
with Iris' mauve & white wedding colors.
More ceiling lights! 
The table settings were also very classy (Breck & Iris welcoming guests far right),

including the center pieces which Iris made using the same flowers from our Kentucky Openhouses (best investment ever!).
I think this was supposed to be Iris' family's table but they never stopped moving long enough to sit down, so it remained vacant most of the night.
The gift & card table
The Wedding and Groomsman cake table
The Bride & Groom's table
The awesome DJ that played the best music ever (80's and Latino)!
Our family's table - Victor and Virginia actually took the Amtrak cross-country to attend the reception in Virginia.
Aubrey and Victor & Virginia meeting Iris' Father
The best picture I could get of Iris' brother Bryan, who was also busy helping out all evening. Iris' brother and his girlfriend Andrea (above) also traveled cross-country to attend the wedding.
Breck high-fiving Merinda while Iris' maid of honor Marianna introduced herself to Victor & Virginia (FYI - Marianna also once went on a date with Wesley Holt).
Family pictures ...
Last year Aubrey lived in the same housing complex as Iris so when Aubrey (who's a pretty tough critic) gave her Iris stamp of approval, the rest of us were sold! 
Iris has visited Victor & Virginia many times in Buhl, Idaho, and I'm pretty sure it's one of her favorite places to decompress from life!
All the Bride's Maids lining up in the hall before being formally announced to the guests. 

Breck entertaining himself while waiting for the processional to begin.
The ring ceremony where Breck & Iris exchanged rings, and Iris' Bishop said a few remarks ...
The Bride & Groom's Dance
Father/Daughter and ...
Mother/Son Dance
Breck & Iris sitting at their lovely table.
Dinner was buffet style with the Bride and Groom going first, and then our table since we were table #1.
Breck & Iris eating the delicious food ...
which was El Salvadorian mushroom chicken n' rice, beet juice potato salad (Iris' Mom's favorite), beef & veggies, re-fried beans, green salad, soda, & rolls.
Time to make a toast (with sparkling fruit juices) to the Bride & Groom.
Traditional dancing where the women pay money to dance with the groom, and the men pay to dance with the bride (Marianna is holding the basket for the money). 
Virginia paying her money to get one of the first dances with Breck.
Breck having too much fun dancing with the ladies of all ages ...
Iris finding a "gentleman" to dance with who is just about her right size!
Another Bride & Groom dance,
and then free dance for everyone!
Iris trying to get Aubrey and Merinda to dance (Merinda later dances the night away with me!).
Iris couldn't talk Aubrey into dancing but she did get Victor to dance, which was caught on video that the kids are watching above.
Breck dancing with Iris' Mom, and Iris dancing with her Step-Father Diego (who helped raise her).
Breck & Iris being serenaded by Iris' uncle.
Time to cut the cake,
and feed each other a bite (thank goodness there was no smashing cake in each other's faces!)
The cake was a delicious Tres Letche Cake!
The aftermath of the cake table.
All the single ladies lining up to catch the bouquet ...
which almost got lost in the lights!
Marianna was a the winner, and will be the next one to get married (I think that's how it goes).
Time for Bride's Maids' pictures
 
I don't think Merinda's ever felt so tall, being only 5'3" herself!
  The beautiful girls in their colorful dresses!
Our Family